Yeah, I've had coworkers say casually, "Oh, they rape you with the prices of their salads" and the like. I don't like it, either. I also don't like the term "wifebeater" to refer to a white tank top worn by men. I can't change the fact that others are comfortable using language like this casually; these people are lucky enough not to have fallen victim to these crimes and simply don't understand how hurtful their language is.
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