I have occasional fantasies about subordinate women, and playing them out can be quite the turn-on, but day to day I like someone who has their own opinions and lets me know how intelligent they are. (One of the reasons I am enamored of our cunninminx, fer sure) I've had subordinate girlfriends, and I was able to resist the temptation of using them utterly, but its actually kind of exhausting when they put up no defense- I definitely prefer someone who communicates their boundries and lets you know their needs.
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